Tips from Sherri experience
- If he doesn't call your or return your calls... he probably isnt worth your time. If a guy is truly interested in you, he will go out of his way to contact you - even just to say "I'm busy, but I cant's wait to talk to you soon".
- It's fine for a guy to talk about his ex... but if he talks about her too much, or in the beginning of a relationship... that is a pretty good sign that he is not over her.. Also, not good if he refer to her as a "bitch" or "psycho" - relationships end because of both people, not because one is 'crazy'.
- Be careful of getting physically involved with a guy too quickly... I know this is cliche... but it truly can affect the longetivity and focus of a relationship.
- KNOW WHO YOU ARE. Seriously... if you don't have your own life, and don't know who you are and what you want out of life, it's pretty hard to be in a healthy relationship. Don't let a guy create your identity for you - or be your identity.
- If you only have fun together while drinking - bad sign.
- If there is zero physical attraction - or only physical attraction and nothing more - bad signs.
- Don't be with someone just because you are afraid of being alone, this will not end well for either person
- BE HONEST... and ask the same of the person you are dating. I hate when guys can't just admit that they aren't interested any more and just avoid you. I also hate when I get myself into an exclusive relationship just because I'm scared to say "no". One of my biggest things in dating now, is honesty.
- When you first start dating someone, don't throw everything else in your life to the side for this new person. You don't even know yet if they are worth your time. And you can easily lose friends by doing this. Besides, guys typically find girls attractive when they have other things going on in their life. Who wants to sit waiting by the phone for a guy anyway?
- More tips and stories to come! :)
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